Fabian F. Barry

Fabian F. Barry, age 59, of Dubuque, IA, was greeted by his heavenly family on May 25, 2024. He passed peacefully at home while surrounded by loved ones.  To honor Fabian’s life, a Celebration of Life for family and friends will be held at Paul’s Tap following burial at the Mt. Olivet Cemetery, where full military honors will be accorded by the Dubuque Marine Corps League. The Tri-State Cremation Center is humbly serving Fabian’s family.

Fabian was born on July 17, 1964, in Bellevue, IA, a son to Donald J. and Elizabeth “Betty” (Burns) Barry. As one of the youngest of ten siblings, his early years were shaped by the lively challenge of keeping up with his older brothers and sisters. Fabian spent his life giving more of his time, talents, and energy to his family and friends than he would ever consider taking. He honorably served his county with the Iowa National Guard and the U.S. Army, while devoting his working career in the construction trades.  Fabian worked on countless projects around the area with the Iowa Labor Union and also spent many years working with friends at Bries Construction, Custom Concrete, and Tschiggfrie Excavating Co. He made work entertaining and memorable for all those on the crew and was respected for his exceptional construction skills. Fabian could build, fix, and create anything and took pride in doing quality work. 

In his free-time, Fabian found many delights in life. An avid collector of Budweiser memorabilia was only the beginning. A perfect day for Fabian was riding his Harley under a sunny sky, followed by an evening around the pool table. He never passed up the opportunity to go fishing or grill food for family and friends. But, for those who knew and loved Fabian most, his family and friends were always top priority in his life. Enjoying the day with his grandchildren, visiting his siblings, or gathering with others at Paul’s Tap or Georgie’s Skyline was where he felt most at ease.

As we look to the difficult days ahead, we find comfort remembering  Fabian’s heart of gold and ironic, witty sense of humor that will continue to resonate throughout the lives of those who knew and loved him.  His family and friends will miss him dearly. We are especially thankful there are innumerable joyful memories for us to lean into during this time of heartache. Thank you, Fabian, for simply being you. You are a legend to our family and to all those who had the honor of knowing your caring and loving heart. May the Lord bless and keep you until we meet again.  

Those left behind to cherish the memory of Fabian include:

his two children,

Christian M. Barry, Neponset, IL,

and Delila J. Barry, Dubuque, IA,

his three grandchildren,

Reighan L. Barry, Ryker M. Barry, and Rick J. Barry;

his siblings,

Linda Douglas, LaMotte, IA,

Margaret “Margy” (Ron) Mueller, Dubuque, IA,

Cheryl “Cheri” (Dan) Lang, Dubuque, IA,

and Ellen “Ellie” (Matthew) Stuckey, Dubuque, IA;

along with numerous nieces, nephews, extended family, friends, and neighbors.

Fabian was preceded in death by his parents; and his siblings, Donald J. Barry Jr., Mary Jean Barry, Georgiann “Georgie”  Barry, George Daniel “Danny” Barry, and Scott Barry.

Fabian’s family would like to thank the nurses and staff at Hospice of Dubuque for all of their professional and compassionate care.

Online condolences may be shared with Fabian’s family at www.tristatecremationcenter.com